(1) Admit one thing you feel awful about involving being a mom. Get it off your shoulders. Once you've written it down, you are No Longer allowed to feel bad. It's over with, it's in the past. Remember, you're a good mom!
Ok, let me get on my soapbox then! I hate that I ‘beat myself up’ over statements that other people say about the way that I am raising my child.
Don’t get me wrong, I think that I am doing a good job of raising my son. I also understand that I am not a by-the-book mother and that some people will never understand that. I just should not be judged because I am not raising my child the way that you raise/raised yours.
I hate that I lie in bed at night and let those comments and questions eat at me. I hate that other people make me second guess if I am a good mother. I hate that I am concerned about what other people think of me as a mother. And most of all, I hate that I don’t stand up for myself more and tell everyone how their comments make me feel.
The important thing is that EC is happy, he is healthy and I could not ask for more. I can’t be doing that bad of a job, can I?
I love that EC is a total ham. He loves to smile and he lights up a room. He was even laughing in his sleep the other night….that is one happy baby!
I love that EC does not cry when he wakes up in the mornings. He babbles to himself and it is adorable to hear. I sometimes lie in bed and listen through the monitor for a while.
I love how EC smiles when I pick him up from the babysitter. His smile, because he recognizes me, can melt away the worst of days.
I love to practice crawling with EC. Since he HATES tummy-time, we have been practicing together. He gets the giggles and it is so much fun.
I love that he has his daddy’s dimple chin.
I love EC’s snuggles when he is sleepy. I love how he buries his head into my neck and grabs my arm. I love his fuzzy hair tickling my chin and his baby breath on my
shoulder.I love his giggle. I can think of no sweeter sound.
Shortymom – for keeping up with her three kids. I have no clue how she does it sometimes!
Itty Bitty Bits Of Me – for raising her girls with a believer’s heart. Plus, her kids say the cutest things!
A Little Crazy & A Lot Of Love – for capturing such wonderful photographs of everyday brotherly love.
Brandi & Boys – I love the adventures of her kiddos. I think that Tee-ball season is going to produce some wonderful blog-worthy stories.
At Shore’s End – she is a SAHM that lives on the beach. [insert jealousy here] Plus she is expecting baby number two and I am excited for her.
9 comments:
oh what a GREAT award to be honored with! Thank you!
Hi and thanks for the award. I feel so honored. Just to clarify...I don't live on the beach. I sure wish I did though. The name of my blog and the header came from the name of our home school, which is Shore's End Academy. : )
Well, shucks Melinda...you sure had me fooled. Regardless, you deserve the award! I am excited to see what you write!
You are a wonderful mom,tell those ppl that say otherwise to shut their mouths! What do they know?
(((HUGS)))
Heather(the other one lol)
Heather, you are a great mom. You are creative. Don't let people get under your skin. (That's what they want!)
Thanks for the award!
The joys of being a mother is that you get to choose how to raise your child. Let them sit up at night wondering why you make your decisions. You are the only one who knows that the decisions you make are the right ones for you and your child!
Good Post!
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Congratulations! You have a wonderful blog.
Congrats on the award!
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